Have you watched the movie, The Contender? In it, a politician is being
pressured to compromise her principles - to take the Low Road. If she were to do so, she could take the easy way out and defend herself. What's wrong with that?
Without giving away what happens, I offer something she said that resonates with me - and I paraphrase - "Values and principles are not meant to be lived only when they are convenient."
This makes sense to me. So many of us are under incredible pressures. When I'm not operating at peak energy, when I'm off a roll, it's easy to give in to these pressures and operate in a way that doesn't truly reflect who I am. Of course, a Low Road action only hurts others and can create negative results, thus perpetuating and intensifying the pressures I gave into in the first place.
High Road Leadership is not for the wimpy. High Road Leadership is about stepping up and living our values and principles, even when it's not convenient.
How do you model and live High Road Leadership even when:
- you didn't create the results you wanted on the first try?
- someone disagrees with you?
- someone is conducting business in a way you wouldn't?
- things are piling up and are increasingly hectic?